How To Live Your Best Life if You’re Alone On Valentine’s Day

In the words of Shania herself, “The best thing about bein' a woman, Is the prerogative to have a little fun”, which is exactly what we’re going to do! So, turn off the soppy love songs, summon your inner goddess and get ready for a Valentine’s Day that’s all about you. Here are 15 ways to live your best life if you’re single on Valentine’s Day, because let's face it, chocolate tastes so much better when you don’t have to share! 

1.Boss Babe Movie Marathon

Empower yourself with a lineup of movies featuring strong female leads. Think The Devil Wears Prada, Erin Brockovich, and Hidden Figures. Grab your favourite snacks (yes, the expensive ones), cosy up in your comfiest pyjamas, and let these fabulous women remind you why you’re the boss of your own life. And hey, no one’s here to judge if you finish a whole tub of ice cream—you’re living your best life!

2. Day with Friends

Valentine’s doesn’t have to be solo if you don’t want it to be. Gather your besties and plan the ultimate day out. Go for a long, indulgent brunch, try an escape room for a little friendly competition, or sip your way through a fancy wine tasting. Quality time with your squad makes all the difference.

3. Pamper Day

Treat yourself to the ultimate self-care extravaganza. We’re talking a bubble bath so epic it could rival a Hollywood set. Throw in essential oils, bath salts, candles, and maybe a cheeky glass of bubbly. Follow it up with a face mask, your favourite candle lit, and your favourite music for your very own main character moment. 

4. Social Media Detox

Scrolling through picture-perfect Valentine’s posts is a one-way ticket to feeling blah. So, do yourself a solid: log out, turn on Do Not Disturb, and forget the world exists. Replace scrolling with something way better, like binge-watching a crime documentary or rediscovering how much you love your own company. Sometimes, stepping back makes all the difference.

5. Write Yourself a Love Letter

Yes, you heard that right. Pen down all the reasons you’re amazing—your wit, your charm, your ability to assemble IKEA furniture solo. Channel your inner Shakespeare and remind yourself that you’re the leading lady (or gent) of your own life. Bonus: no awkward spelling mistakes to apologise for. Even a hopeless romantic would be impressed by your prose!

6. Buy Yourself Flowers

Miley Cyrus got it right. Pick up the prettiest red roses you can find and while you’re at it, grab some chocolates too. After all, why stop at flowers when you can have it all? A perfect Valentine’s Day gift… to yourself.

7. Valentine’s Day Secret Santa

Get the squad together and turn Valentine’s Day into Galentine’s Day with a Secret Santa twist. Think quirky mugs, luxurious candles, or even a shared experience like a spa day. Nothing says “I appreciate you” like the perfect gift… and maybe a cheeky bottle of wine to go with it. It’s a fantastic way to celebrate Valentine’s Day with your crew.

8. Cocktail Night but Make It Extra

Host a cocktail night that puts every Pinterest board to shame. Create themed drinks (think Cosmo Royale, Pink Valentine Spritz, or even a Lavender Haze Martini for the Swifties) and invite your besties over for a mixology showdown. Feeling nostalgic? Go for a Sex and the City-inspired Cosmopolitan session.

9. Get Outdoors

Feeling cooped up? Head outdoors for a breath of fresh air—and a break from all those Valentine’s ads. Whether it’s a brisk walk in the park, a hiking adventure, or outdoor yoga, being in nature is the ultimate reset. Plus, it’s the perfect opportunity to take some killer selfies. Fresh air and exercise make all the difference.

10. Get Dressed Up

Who says you need plans to dress up? Pull out your fanciest outfit, try that bold lipstick shade, and rock your best heels (even if it’s just to fetch a takeaway). Feeling fabulous isn’t about the destination; it’s all about the vibes. Who knows, maybe you’ll feel inspired to whip up a romantic dinner… for one.

11. Cook a Fancy Dinner for Yourself

Dust off that cookbook and go full-on MasterChef. Light some candles, play your favourite tunes, and create a dinner so divine you’ll want to applaud yourself. Don’t forget to treat yourself to some heart-shaped chocolates for dessert. And yes, you’re allowed to Instagram it… just not before eating. It’s all the difference between an ordinary and extraordinary Valentine’s night.

12. Start a New Book

Finally tackle that pile of books staring at you from the bedside table. Light a candle, snuggle up, and escape into a world of romance, mystery, or sci-fi. Pro tip: pair it with a hot drink and some biscuits for peak cosiness. For the hopeless romantic, it’s the perfect escape.

13. Cocktail Masterclass

Nothing says “fun” like shaking up some cocktails with friends. A cocktail masterclass is guaranteed laughs, plenty of taste-testing, and maybe a few questionable shaker moves. You’ll leave with new skills… and probably a bit tipsy. It’s just the thing for a memorable date night with your friends.

14. Go to the Cinema

There’s something oddly satisfying about watching a film solo. No debates over movie choices, no interruptions during the best scenes, and all the popcorn to yourself. Choose the cheesiest rom-com or the latest blockbuster and enjoy the freedom of solo cinema bliss. Celebrate love with quality time to yourself. 

15. Treat Yourself to a Spa Treatment

Book that massage, facial, or mani-pedi you’ve been putting off. Treating yourself like the royalty you are isn’t just a Valentine’s Day thing—it’s a lifestyle. You’ll leave feeling pampered, refreshed, and ready to conquer the world… or at least the week ahead. A spa day could be the ultimate Valentine’s gift to yourself.

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about couple’s dinners or heart-shaped everything. It’s the perfect opportunity to celebrate the most important relationship you’ll ever have—the one with yourself. Or why not embrace the spirit of friendship with Galentines Day gifts? Celebrate the amazing friendships that brighten your life with thoughtful experiences, from pamper days to cocktail nights and everything in between. Whether it’s treating yourself, spoiling your besties, or simply taking the time to enjoy your own company, there’s no wrong way to spend the day. So, go ahead and make it one to remember—because you and your favourite people deserve it.