Valentine’s Day Gifts without the Valentine? How about some self love instead!

The dreaded day of ‘love’ is coming up, you’re single or maybe you’re going through a breakup or divorce, and all you’re seeing is red and pink paraphernalia everywhere in the shops.  The restaurants have posters slapped all over their windows and those annoying Facebook/Instagram ads keep popping up in your newsfeed about the day beginning with ‘V’. Bleugh! Not for me thanks! 

Ok, ok, I know, if I had a significant other then I’d probably be a little bit more warm and fuzzy about it, but I haven’t and I’m rather happy about that 😊

As someone who is single and definitely not ready to mingle, I’d rather spend this day injecting a little self care into my routine and showing some appreciation……well…..for myself! Now I’m not against Valentines Day and each to their own I say, however, sometimes we need to have a little look in the mirror and realise how freakin’ awesome we are! I won’t do a Mel Robbins though and high five myself. 

For me, my ideal evening is running myself a steaming hot bath, lighting some little candles, getting some relaxing music on and taking some time in my own little homemade spa session! You simply can’t beat a warm soak and getting lost in your own thoughts. 

Afterwards, it’s then time for the fluffy PJ’s, popping open the fizz and curling up on the sofa with my little pooches next to me! 

I appreciate this isn’t for everyone (you weirdos) and we all have our own ideas of how to spend our time whether it’s on our own or with friends. 

Speaking of which, if you have single girlfriends, then why not get them round for a girlie night instead? Get some yummy snacks on the go or you could host a POT LUCK and all bring a dish each to enjoy! 

For me, love should be celebrated every day of the year, not just on one particular commercialised day.  And why not extend that love to ourselves, our family and friends? Love isn’t limited to romance after all.  Love comes in all forms (that’s my two pennies worth anyway 😊)

Maybe you want to do something a little different, something ‘out there’ and a little more adventurous? OK here’s some alternative Valentine's Day Gift ideas for you:

If you’re going through a tough breakup or divorce or maybe people are just annoying you in general (pesky humans) then you can always indulge in a little Rage Room Experience? A sure fire way to unleash all of those pent up frustrations and a chance to smash up whatever you like in a controlled environment.  Definitely what the Doctor ordered if you ask me! 

Or how about a thrilling Bungee Jump for One where you dive off a 160ft platform! An instant adrenaline rush as you free fall into beautiful UK landscapes and get that heart racing! 

Or how about some Ziplining where you get to elevate your adrenaline by sliding down a cable from one side to the other?  This is a really fun and adventure seeking experience which is usually in beautiful locations and a great way to enjoy the outdoors!  There are lots of different ziplining experiences in various locations to choose from here.

How about something a little more aquatic? White Water Rafting definitely tickles my fancy! Enjoy an exciting 3 hours going down fast, narrow and rocky whilst working as part of a team and also the challenge of having to think quickly whilst you navigate treacherous (don’t worry you’re in safe hands) and turbulent waters.  It’s such an exhilarating experience and one which will get that heart pumping for sure! Definitely lots of fun to be had! 

Or how about some Canyoning in Wales? Walk, climb, jump, abseil and swim through remote gorges and hidden waterfalls whilst also enjoying the wonder and natural beauty of the Brecon Beacons? This is such a thrilling experience and definitely one on my bucket list! 

Feeling a little more tame?

OK so for the foodies, how about a lovely Afternoon Tea with your girlfriends?  There are many fabulous options on offer! You can enjoy a River Cruise along the Thames or jump on a Bus and go on a sightseeing tour of the capital. For the Gin Lovers you can even partake in a Bombay Sapphire Afternoon Tea Bus Tour in London (right up my street) or why not tuck in to some scones whilst enjoying the beautiful and vibrant Covent Garden at Brigit’s Bakery?! This is a bottomless afternoon tea where you have the choice to choose Prosecco, Gin Cocktails or Champagne. Personally, I’d love to have the choice of all three if I had it my way!

How about a night out with a friend enjoying delicious tapas and cocktails? Revolución de Cuba has multiple locations across the UK and so you’re sure to find one near you! They offer a wonderful array of delicious Cuban dishes which includes the likes of Jamón Croquettas, Chimichurri Corn, Gambas Pil Pil, Vegan Patatas Bravas and much more! There are plenty of meat and vegan/vegetarian options which caters for everyone!

Sip on delicious cocktails as you put the world to rights with your gal or guy pal and get lost in the electric Cuban atmosphere!

Another way to have some fun and entertainment either by yourself or with friends is a Murder Mystery Dinner in London. Solve the clues and find the villain whilst enjoying a sumptuous 3 course dinner with wine aswell! A lively and immersive experience involving actors which make for a really entertaining evening and creating memories you won’t forget in a hurry! Become a detective for the night and solve the mystery whilst stuffing your face with delicious food and sipping on beautiful wine! 

If you wish to include a hotel stay then this is the perfect package too Murder Mystery Weekend Activity and is available across various locations! 

So there you go! Lots to choose from, lots to entertain yourself with so there’s no need to feel glum on Valentines Day! 

I’m just looking forward to my bath! 😊

Natalie W @ WonderDays